
Take On The Grammar Habit With These Simple Steps
If grammar is your nemesis as a writer, then let me introduce you to Ellen Sue Feld, the creator/instructor of online grammar refresher courses at grammar-lion.com and the author of Comma Sense: Your Guide to Grammar Victory. Below, Ellen offers valuable advice on building a good grammar habit.
Because I teach grammar, people assume I believe good grammar is the key to good writing. But I donât believe that, not for one second. Hereâs what I do believe: Your creative process is the most important part of your writing. Checking for good grammar comes later. Good grammar doesnât make good writing, but good writing demands good grammar.
So how do we make good grammar a natural part of our writing process? By developing good grammar habits!
Recently, I listened to a podcast about the new science of habit building. (The good news is that we donât have to harness anything magical or elusive, like willpower.) We can build good grammar habits using the same strategies that work for building any new habit.
Hereâs the current thinking:
- Desire the habit.
- Start small.
- Attach the new habit to an existing habit.
- Make it fun.
- Do it with consistency.
- Create accountability and/or support.
Whew! That may sound like a lot. But donât worry. While developing good grammar habits, you donât need to employ all the strategies above. Sometimes just a few will do the trick.
Iâm going to add a couple of my own that have proved true in my experience as an instructor and writer:
- Expand what you know (i.e., remain open to learning).
- Listen selectively to what others have to say; be discerning in your research.
- Commit to reviewing your work before sharing or submitting it.
Letâs make this real with some common grammar problems youâll want to consider:
- run-on sentences
- lack of subject-verb agreement and pronoun-antecedent agreement
- homophones
- random commas and lack of commas
- ambiguous pronouns
- wordiness
- shifts in person and tense
- dangling and misplaced modifiers
- punctuation with quotation marks
- punctuation with conjunctive adverbs
- capitalization
We all come to grammar at our own starting place. Cross off what you donât need to work on, and add more topics as you think of them.
Building Good Grammar Habits
Now letâs use habit building to turn around these grammar problems in our writing. For our example, weâll use homophones as our target good grammar habit.
- Desire the habit. If the desire isnât there, youâre unlikely to develop a good new habit. So what might motivate you as a writer? Consider this: Your writing is a reflection of who you are, and you want the best possible reflection. In other words, you donât want anything to detract from the overall picture of the wonderful writer you are. Good grammar will enhance your writerâs image.
Resolve: I want my writing to be polished and professional. And I want to have confidence in my writing whenever I share it with someone else.
- Start small. You donât have to know everything. Begin with one, two, or three points of grammar to master. You can always challenge yourself later with additional topics.
Resolve: I want to be sure Iâm using the right homophone. Iâm aware I sometimes mix up their, there, and theyâre even though I know the differences. Iâll pay more attention to this.
- Attach the new habit to an existing habit. Youâre already set because youâve attached the habit of using good grammar to your existing habit of writing and editing. One of the great things about grammar is that you get to practice your skills every time you write. Practice is naturally built in to the process!
Resolve: When Iâve finished writing, Iâll review my work and look for their/there/theyâre to make sure Iâve used them correctly. Iâm also going to start a list of homophones I mix up. Iâll check my writing against that list.
- Make it fun. Reward yourself. Use whatâs positive for you. Here are a few ideas for adding pleasure to your grammar-check process: Eat a jellybean when you catch an error. Play your own special grammar-check music in the background. Compile a list of the errors you catch so that your pride in recognition will grow as your list grows.
Resolve: I love numbers and puzzles as much as I love words, so Iâll enjoy solving a sudoku after I do a grammar check.Â
- Do it with consistency. This may feel hard. Weâre often pressed for time. But try your best to factor in time for a grammar check. Itâs a vital part of your writing process.
Resolve: Iâll look for homophone errors in all my writing, including emails and texts.
- Create accountability. If you thrive on community support, go ahead and tell someone about your new plan to build good grammar habits. Keep them updated on your progress. And if you like to work solo, thatâs fine, too. You can be accountable to yourself.
Resolve: This is a pact Iâm making with myself.
- Be open to ongoing learning. Youâre learning every time you look up something online, go to a dictionary, take a course, or ask another writer a question. Every little bit you learn and put to use contributes to big changes in your writing.
Resolve: A writer friend just mentioned whet/wet to me in the expression âwhet your appetite.â I always thought it was âwet your appetiteâ! Though Iâm aware of a few other homophones I misuse, Iâm going to have some fun perusing lists.
- Â Be discerning. Thereâs a lot of information out there. You know not all of it is legit. Some well-meaning people can inadvertently spread misinformation. Vet your sources. For example, if a grammar information site is connected to a university, itâs more likely than a random site to be trustworthy.
Resolve: I just found a comprehensive online grammar resource. Itâs a writing lab thatâs part of a public university, and itâs available to everyone. Itâs easy to use, and I can trust what I learn there.
- Review your work before submitting. When youâve finished writing, take a break. Walk away. Distance will help you spot errors when you come back. Then read through your work in an unhurried way. Because we get accustomed to our own words, itâs easy to overlook errors. Reading aloud can help. Another useful technique is reading your work from the bottom up, paragraph by paragraph. If you can, read from a print version instead of on the screen.
Resolve: Iâm going to factor in a few minutes of grammar review time for every thousand words. This will allow me be methodical and relaxed.
You may be wondering how long it takes to build a new habit. It depends on how complex the habit is and how often and how much you get to practice. The more consistent you areâas in doing a grammar check and making corrections every time you writeâthe quicker youâll develop the habit. But this isnât a race. Good grammar habits are for the long term, for as long as you are a writer.
Come join us at Grammar Lion of Facebook (@grammarlion). Weâre a diverse, international, nonjudgmental group of learners who aim to let no grammar question go unanswered. Everyone is welcome!
(Thank you to Hidden Brain for producing and sharing the podcast âCreatures of Habit.â You can find it here: https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/creatures-of-habit/ )
More About Ellen’s Grammar Book
Comma Sense: Your Guide to Grammar Victory– Learn the rules of adverbs, punctuation, abbreviations, prepositions, and much more. Ellen covers topics such as em dashes, parentheticals and parallelism, diction and logic, run-on sentences and sentence fragments, and more. Become a master of capitalization and punctuation, subjects and predicates, and contractions and possessives. After every chapter, take a quiz to practice your new grammatical skills in this great grammar workbook. At the end of the book, a comprehensive test allows you to utilize all you have learned. At 512 pages, there is lots of content in this book! Readers who enjoyed The Elements of Style; Actually, the Comma Goes Here; The Blue Book of Grammar and Punctuation; or The Perfect English Grammar Workbook will love Comma Sense: A Guide to Grammar Victory.Â
âIn her new book, Comma Sense, Ellen Sue Feld demystifies grammar with clarity, conciseness, and empathy.â
âAnu Garg, author and founder of Wordsmith.org
âIf you really want to go deep into the âhowâ and âwhyâ of grammar, then Comma Sense is for you. Ellen covers the basics like a pro and delivers practical examples to help you learn. Youâll never mess up âlieâ and âlayâ again!â
âLisa Lepki, CMO at ProWritingAid
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About The Grammar Refresher Course
Ellen also offers a self-paced online course, A Grammar Refresher. I recommend the course for those who struggle with issues such as:
- Parts of speech
- Contractions and possessives
- Subjects and predicates
- Sentence fragments
- Run-on sentences
- Agreement
- Shifts in person, tense, and structure
- Capitalization and punctuation

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